But have you ever thought, what if your partner would do the same thing? Behind your back she will have sex..just sex and still you're the one she love. She will lose nothing as she is no longer a virgin (because of you). It was safe sex so she won't get pregnant. No problem....
Nah.. Your partner would never do it... You trust her and she is not that way.. But how much do you really know her? Actually, Your partner is thinking the same thing. She trust you so much.. She knows you well that you won't cheat on her.. Or so she thought... But as a woman, you might probably be right, she will be faithful to you as it is socially acceptable. And men, being a men means it is socially acceptable to cheat.. to have sex to anyone he likes... Oh..come on.... That idea was just passed on by our ancestors.. Even way back from the time of Spaniards it worked that way. And just what happens to the loyal women? They are left crying and hurting. Would you really hurt the one you love? Would you really betray that trust given to you by the woman you cared so much? So.. Cheating, whether it is having another relationship or having sex with other women whether they are PSPs or not is still CHEATING and it is very, very wrong.
Nah.. I'm not preaching here. I'm just saying my thoughts. I have been cheated before. I cheated as well.. And I became the "other woman" as well. There's this thrill from the experience..this is probably one of the many reasons why men cheat. But its just so painful to know that the one you love cheated on you. There are questions like "whats wrong with you?" "Was I not enough?" "What did I do that this happened?" And so on. But actually there is nothing wrong with the one being cheated.
Probably, there are things that your partner cannot do but your other one can. I'm not sure if I will get this correct but I remember reading somewhere "may babaeng pangkasal at babaeng pangkama." Or something like that... Oh come on. Every woman deserves to be treated well and to find their right partners. And why it should be different person. That's why I told myself that I want to be both. I would be the wife material but I would also do sex stuff that will drive my man crazy that he wont even think of cheating on me.
So, really and honestly, why do men (and women) cheat?
So, really and honestly, why do men (and women) cheat?
my opinion is somewhat similar to your post.
TumugonBurahinim not a writer so pardon me for my grammar. and allow me to answer by comparing it with food. mas malimit ito ang ginagamit na halimbawa ng mga lalake sa mga kanya kanyang rason.
my fave is sinigang. yun tipong maasim na maasim at may anghang yun sabaw. sarap niyan lalo na kapag lutong bahay. but i can never have sinigang on all my daily meals. so most likely i will have another lutong bahay na ulam for the next meals which my tummy will be surely enjoying.
pero that doesnt stop there, i will look for other meals and places where variety of food is served, resto or food chains. madalas i end up sa mga buffets.
but despite the many foods i want and ate and places i dined i still go back to my fave lutong bahay na ulam and that is sinigang. why? kasi love ko ang sinigang.
- Compadrei