As they say honesty is the best policy. But at some point in my life it failed.
I am "stick to one," I stick to one boyfriend at a time although some would get close to me as a friend only and they would accept that fact. Having two bf at a time happened only once to me for a certain reason.
It happened few months after my break up with my longtime boyfriend who was my co-worker on a fast food restaurant. My first boyfriend and I, realizing that we still have feelings for each other, we got back together but unfortunately he was based in Cavite and we seldom see each other.
Eventually, I entered into another relationship with a co-worker despite the fact that he has a gf and he was aware of my relationship status as well. The relationship was not known to anybody so we were careful not to be seen by other crew.
One night, not knowing about my relationship with another co-worker, my ex-bf waited for me at the end of our shift. He wanted to talk about us. I was over him already and I wanted him to see and feel that. I don't have an excuse why we can't talk since our way to our own home is the same so I just texted the new bf that my ex and I will just go home together.
My ex bf and I talked, I forgot what we exactly talked about, but eventually he was able to make me go home with him. He was still trying to win me back but as I told him that I gave up on him already, its the end of us. The new bf texted me asking my whereabouts, being the honest me, I told him the truth. He wanted to pick me up where I am but of course I declined, I told him we can't risk it and that I can handle myself. We would just talk and I'd go home.
I am "stick to one," I stick to one boyfriend at a time although some would get close to me as a friend only and they would accept that fact. Having two bf at a time happened only once to me for a certain reason.
It happened few months after my break up with my longtime boyfriend who was my co-worker on a fast food restaurant. My first boyfriend and I, realizing that we still have feelings for each other, we got back together but unfortunately he was based in Cavite and we seldom see each other.
Eventually, I entered into another relationship with a co-worker despite the fact that he has a gf and he was aware of my relationship status as well. The relationship was not known to anybody so we were careful not to be seen by other crew.
One night, not knowing about my relationship with another co-worker, my ex-bf waited for me at the end of our shift. He wanted to talk about us. I was over him already and I wanted him to see and feel that. I don't have an excuse why we can't talk since our way to our own home is the same so I just texted the new bf that my ex and I will just go home together.
My ex bf and I talked, I forgot what we exactly talked about, but eventually he was able to make me go home with him. He was still trying to win me back but as I told him that I gave up on him already, its the end of us. The new bf texted me asking my whereabouts, being the honest me, I told him the truth. He wanted to pick me up where I am but of course I declined, I told him we can't risk it and that I can handle myself. We would just talk and I'd go home.
But, the ex didn't allow me to go home, the reason: it’s very late and it’s not safe for me to go home alone, etc. I gave in. I slept in his (our old) room. But I swear, I just slept and NOTHING happened. (I'm not sure if you'll believe it, but if you were able to read my previous posts you'll know that I can do it. I have this certain control. Lol)
Knowing what happened, the new bf is so furious at me even if I told him many times that we talked and just slept. I'm sure he doubted that and I hated it. We didn't talk for days. At first it didn't matter, our relationship was not that serious.
Just in time, the real bf visited me, picked me up at work and of course we talked about different things. Being the honest me again, I told him what happened. And I can see doubt and anger in his eyes. I told him, if something happened, would I be brave enough to tell him about it. He said, he believes me but its bothering him. (I know he has the reason to doubt me but not on that situation)
He was so quiet the rest of the trip to his home. He was almost ignoring me when we arrived and his friends were there. I got irritated and told him I would just go home. He just accompanied me until I rode a jeep. It really broke my heart.
I didn’t hear from him for days.. Weeks.. And that made me closer to the new bf because he didn’t stopped until we talk and clear things out until our relationship got deeper....
Lesson learned: sometimes, what they say about "what you don't know won't hurt you" can be applied. Lol. But maybe I was just destined for the new bf. :D
What do you think my dear readers? If same thing happened to you, whether you are the real bf or the new bf, what would you do?
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